I Cleaned an Elderly Woman’s House for 26 Years, but After Her Funeral, Her Son Fired Me and Handed Me $300

  • The Deed Book
  • My name is Elnora Ruthanne Whitsett, and I’m seventy-two years old.
  • I have cleaned houses since I was fourteen. I have scrubbed floors on my knees in Maury County, Tennessee, for fifty-eight years. I have raised a daughter, buried a husband, buried my mama, and buried more friends than I care to count.
  • And I have never in my life stood in a courthouse and read my own name in a book that big.

  • Rosella turned that book around to face me.
  • She put her finger on a line.
  • “Read it, honey,” she said. “Read it yourself.”
  • I put on my reading glasses. My hands were shaking so bad I nearly dropped them.
  • I looked down.
  • There it was. In type. In black ink. On thick, cream-colored paper that smelled like old dust and lemon oil.
  • My whole name.
  • ELNORA RUTHANNE WHITSETT.
  • And right under it…

  • But I’m getting ahead of myself.
  • My mama always said you can’t understand the end of a story if you don’t know where it started. So let me start where it started.
  • On a porch.


  • I grew up on the Lockridge place.
  • It’s out on the Hampshire Pike, eight miles west of Columbia. Three hundred acres of rolling pasture and woods. A big white farmhouse with green shutters and a wraparound porch, sitting up on a little rise so you can see it from the road. Built in 1889.
  • And at the end of a gravel lane, down past the barn, past the pond, back where the land dips toward the creek, there’s a little white tenant house.
  • Four rooms. A tin roof. A porch with a swing hanging on chains. And behind it, a pecan grove. Forty-one trees. Big ones. Older than anybody living.
  • That’s where I learned to walk.
  • On that porch. Holding on to the swing chain. My mama said I took my first steps from the swing to the screen door and fell flat on my face and laughed.

  • My mama was Odessa Whitsett.
  • She cooked and cleaned for the Lockridges from 1946 until 1989. Forty-three years. She started for old Mr. Amos Lockridge, Mrs. Henrietta’s father-in-law, when she was sixteen years old. Then for Mr. Walter Lockridge and Mrs. Henrietta when they married.
  • She was paid eleven dollars a week in 1950. And the tenant house to live in. Rent free.
  • That was the arrangement.
  • That’s what I was told it was, anyway.

  • My daddy worked the farm. Plowing. Haying. Cattle. Fixing fence. He died in 1961 when a tractor rolled on him on the north slope. I was eight.
  • Mr. Walter paid for the funeral. Mama cried, she was so grateful.
  • Mrs. Henrietta brought a ham.

  • I left the Lockridge place when I married Clarence Whitsett in 1971. Well, I kept my name. Clarence’s name was Whitsett too. No relation. People thought that was the funniest thing. Two Whitsetts marrying. Mama said it saved on stationery.
  • We had a little house in Columbia, on East End Street. Clarence drove a truck for the phosphate plant. I cleaned houses in town. Doctors’ wives. Lawyers’ wives. A dentist who wanted his baseboards done with a toothbrush.
  • We had Alfreda in 1974.

  • In 1989, Mama got sick. Her heart. She couldn’t work anymore.
  • Mrs. Henrietta called me.
  • “Elnora,” she said. “Your mama’s been with this family forty-three years. I won’t have her anywhere but that house. I’ll take care of her doctor bills. But I need somebody to help me out here. Will you come?”
  • I came.

  • Mama died in 1992. In the tenant house. In her own bed. With the window open so she could smell the pecans.
  • I kept coming.
  • Clarence died in 2004. Lung cancer. Phosphate dust, the doctor said.
  • I kept coming.

  • Twenty-six years, all told. Since Mama passed.
  • Mondays, the kitchen and the bathrooms.
  • Thursdays, the floors.
  • Fridays…

  • Fridays she wouldn’t let me touch a mop until I sat down with her for coffee and a biscuit.
  • At the kitchen table. The long oak one. Under the window that looks out on the pasture.
  • She’d have the coffee made. Percolator. Maxwell House. She never would get one of those fancy machines. And biscuits from scratch. Every Friday. Even at ninety-three, when her hands were so stiff she had to roll the dough with the heel of her palm.
  • “Elnora, the dirt will wait,” she’d say. “I won’t.”

  • So I’d sit.
  • And we’d talk.
  • About everything. The weather. Her boys. My Alfreda. The preacher at First Presbyterian, who she said couldn’t preach his way out of a paper sack. The price of eggs. The president. The Titans.
  • For twenty-six years.
  • Every Friday.

  • She was ninety-four when she passed. Sharp as a tack till the last week. She did the crossword in the Columbia Daily Herald every morning in ink.


  • Mrs. Lockridge had three boys.
  • Not one of them lived closer than Nashville.

  • Carlton was the oldest. Sixty-eight. A retired banker in Brentwood. A quiet man. Gray suit. Gray hair. He called his mama every Sunday afternoon at three o’clock. You could set a clock by it.
  • Thurston was the middle one. Sixty-five. A real estate developer. He builds subdivisions. Big ones. The kind with names like The Reserve at Copper Creek. He drove a Range Rover. He wore boots that had never seen a cow pasture.
  • Bertram was the youngest. Sixty-one. He’d been a lot of things. A car dealer. A restaurant owner. A man who sold something on the internet. He’d been married three times. He came around when he needed money.

  • Thurston and Bertram only came when they wanted something.
  • Christmas. Easter, sometimes. Her birthday, if they remembered.
  • They’d sit in her front parlor for an hour. Drinking her coffee. Talking about property values. Looking out the window at the pasture like they were measuring it.

  • Last Christmas, Thurston came through the kitchen while I was washing the turkey platter.
  • He leaned on the counter.
  • “Elnora,” he said. “You know my house in town? On West Seventh?”
  • “Yes, sir.”
  • “My cleaning lady quit,” he said. “I need somebody Tuesdays and Saturdays. Mother pays you anyway. What’s the difference?”

  • I didn’t know what to say.
  • I was standing there with my hands in the dishwater.
  • Mother pays you anyway. What’s the difference.
  • Like I was a lawnmower she was letting him borrow.

  • Mrs. Lockridge heard him.
  • She was in the next room. The sitting room. In her chair by the fire. With her afghan over her knees.
  • She didn’t say a word to him.
  • But I saw her face through the doorway.
  • I’d known that face for sixty-some years. Since I was a baby on that porch.
  • It went very still.

  • That Friday, over coffee, she asked me a strange question.

    PART 2

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